Should You See Your Bride or Groom Before the Wedding?

Welcome to the Weekly Wednesday Survey!  Every Wednesday the Wedding Confessionals Crew tackles one wedding related hot topic and reveal all of our different takes on the subject.  Get ready, y’all.  This group’s got some STRONG OPINIONS!

Should you see your bride/groom the day of the wedding before the ceremony?  Is it good to keep traditions, or is it too old fashion and not practical these days?

Erika: I think not seeing each other the day-of is a sweet, romantic tradition and, lets face it, it’s also probably a good idea to avoid the other most stressed out person in the building on the day of the ceremony.

Brooke: I’m FASCINATED by anyone who can pull this off.  There’s so much coordination, communication and chaos on the day of a wedding, that you pretty much NEED to be linked to your bride/groom-to-be hours before the ceremony.  I think that this tradition only works if one of two things is going on.  A) One of the people involved is totally checked out and not involved in the actual planning of the day, like a very old school straight dude who can’t be bothered with “all this girly stuff.”  (BTW, I kinda hate that dude.)  Or B) The couple REALLY wants this tradition to stay alive, and are on their phones the whole day in order to stay in sync with each other.  In the end, I think it’s kinda romantic and sweet for those who try to do this, but I also think couples don’t need to force this to happen if they don’t want.

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Ban Cell Phones & Personal Cameras or Let the Amateur Photographers Run Free?

Welcome to the Weekly Wednesday Survey!  Every Wednesday the Wedding Confessionals Crew tackles one wedding related hot topic and reveal all of our different takes on the subject.  Get ready, y’all.  This group’s got some STRONG OPINIONS!

Everyone has a cell phone these days, but not everyone is a great photographer.  Should brides and grooms politely tell people to put them away or take a chance someone may get the perfect shot?

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Should You Hook Up at a Wedding?

Welcome to the Weekly Wednesday Survey!  Every Wednesday the Wedding Confessionals Crew tackles one wedding related hot topic and reveal all of our different takes on the subject.  Get ready, y’all.  This group’s got some STRONG OPINIONS!

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Weddings are a time to celebrate love.  But are they a time to celebrate lust?  There’s no denying this math:

ROMANCE + ALCOHOL = HOOK UP

But is it a good idea to hook up at a wedding?  Or is it a disaster waiting to happen?

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Kids at Weddings: Cute or Catastrophe?

Welcome to the Weekly Wednesday Survey!  Every Wednesday the Wedding Confessionals Crew tackles one wedding related hot topic and reveal all of our different takes on the subject.  Get ready, y’all.  This group’s got some STRONG OPINIONS!

Should you invite children to a wedding?  Is it cute to have the little guys and gals dressed up in tiny grown up outfits?  Or is having kids at a wedding and reception a disaster waiting to happen?

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Should The DJ Play Your Song?

Welcome to the Weekly Wednesday Survey!  Every Wednesday the Wedding Confessionals Crew tackles one wedding related hot topic and get all of our different takes on the subject.   Get ready, y’all.  The group’s got some STRONG OPINIONS!Song-request-tapeAre you, as an invited guest, allowed to tell the DJ what to play?  You’ve been to tons of weddings, but does that make you an expert on what to play on the dance floor?  Is there a limit to the amount of songs you can request?

Pam: Unless a music change has been pre-approved by the bride or groom, you don’t mess with wedding music. No matter how awful it is…you sit through it, then afterward come tell us all about it and we can feel your pain with you! Continue reading

Question: Is Taylor Swift a Shitty Maid of Honor?

From Brooke:

A few weeks back a girl named Britany Maak got married.  The ceremony took place in Reading, Pennsylvania, the bride wore a lace gown, and one more minor detail…her Maid Of Honor was TAYLOR SWIFT!

the best friend, the best family, the best groom and the best day ❤️

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Taylor sang at the reception, posed for photos with the bridal party and was an overall delight for her pal’s big day.  But Taylor did one thing that some of us may find a little off putting.  Continue reading